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MARRIAGE COACHING SERVICES

There is a way out of loneliness and frustration that doesn't involve divorce.

Most people don’t need a new partner; they need new patterns. Unfortunately, our patterns follow us to our next relationship. So the REAL way out of loneliness and frustration is learning new patterns.

I combine personalized coaching with The REAL Way Out Framework so you can interrupt hurtful patterns and create enjoyable ones.

Finally, methods that will help you rediscover your "us".

The Real Way Out Framework

This framework builds a connection you want to come home to. And it’s never too early, or late, for real transformation.

If you’ve tried DIY solutions, searched for marriage support, or watched others lose hope, don’t give up.

With my framework and personalized coaching, clients are creating marriages that feel supportive, meaningful, and genuinely enjoyable. I wish I had this 30 years ago!

Individual Coaching

One person making intentional changes can transform a marriage—and the shifts can be powerful.

We’ll explore patterns causing pain, look at who you are as a person and how you show up in your relationships.

Combined with The REAL Way Out Framework, we’ll practice tools together so you feel confident using them at home. As you grow, your marriage will too.

Individual sessions: 55 minutes.

Couples Coaching

We work together and individually in the same session, allowing for deeper, more efficient progress without fear of blame or dismissal.

You’ll build skills to take care of yourself and each other while we create a plan and taking real action. This isn’t just talk—we do the work together.

Couples sessions: 2 hours, every other week, or private workshops in a focused 4-hour format.

For those who dread "this kind of stuff," they enjoy The REAL Way Out Framework.

Why? It’s easy to learn, put into practice, and presented in an engaging way. A combination of serious stuff and fun. You feel better instead of worse. It’s personalized and it works!

Who wouldn't love this?

Couples who use The REAL Way Out Framework experience:

Less defensiveness
Less criticism

Less dismissiveness
Less loneliness
Less resentment

More ownership
More teamwork
More attentiveness
More connection
More support

What is The REAL Way Out Framework?

After years of struggling with relationships, I immersed myself in research, earned certifications, and tested countless techniques in my marriage and family life. I kept what worked, reworked what didn’t, and collaborated with couples to create The REAL Way Out Framework.

The framework includes nearly 20 adaptable, easy-to-understand reading materials and videos tailored for any situation. We explore and practice these tools during our sessions, before applying and reinforcing the materials at home. Most people end up using a core set of five tools consistently, which makes the approach practical and easy to integrate into daily life.

The best part? Couples are rediscovering their “us” as they navigate this next chapter of their marriage.

What type of results do you see with The REAL Way Out Framework?

“We had so many issues we kept sweeping under the rug, it was no wonder the resentment was so thick. What we are most glad about is that now we know how to take care of the hard stuff as it happens instead of avoiding it. No more pile-ups of lingering bad feelings. We owe it all to Jonie and her Real Way Out Framework. Thank you!”

“For most of my life, I’ve struggled with my emotions and reacting before I could understand why. Jonie helped me see the patterns beneath my reactions. She gave me tools that helped me pause, reflect, and respond with clarity. Her complete lack of judgement made it safe to explore even the hardest parts of myself. Working with her has been life-changing, and I’m incredibly grateful for her guidance. If you’re ready to truly understand yourself and grow, I can’t recommend her enough.”

“When I started coaching with Jonie, I wasn’t sure there was much hope left for my relationship. I feared nothing would change. However, with her support, I began to see real options, especially when facing criticism from my wife. I used to either leave, shut down, or fight back, and none of those felt right. With Jonie’s guidance, I chose a leadership style that reflects who I want to be. One of the biggest breakthroughs was realizing my wife wasn’t trying to hurt me. She was just expressing pain. That shift changed everything. I now respond with empathy, instead of defense, and it's made a real difference. Thank you from both of us!”

“Working with Jonie is a joy and a blessing! Her emotional intelligence and ability to guide people with compassion and understanding are remarkable. From the beginning, her communication, leadership, and coaching style made me feel at ease, seen, supported, and cared for. Before her individual coaching, I used to isolate myself when things went wrong. I’d hurt in silence, unable to express what I was feeling. Now, I can share what’s going on inside my head, which has changed everything. I recommend Jonie to anyone ready for real change and a better life.”