LINK Relationships – Enjoy Your Marriage Again

Relationship coaching that helps you overcome loneliness, decrease tension, and avoid divorce

Feeling unimportant or misunderstood?

Being alone in a marriage is devastating.

Unheard, frustrated, not respected or supported
Explosive & hostile and/or avoiding & hiding
Feeling wronged and lonely
“This isn’t how I thought it would be.”

Loneliness and frustration are incredibly painful. They are also signs of better days ahead.

When you are in the distressing stage of marriage, it helps to know these three things: It’s a normal part of the marriage cycle. It feels absolutely horrible. AND it’s an extremely beneficial stage, once you know how to navigate through it.

Instead of divorce or a miserable marriage, you can know what to do to move through this distressing stage of marriage.

Less resentment & pain

Resentment is a helpful neon sign; it highlights a problem to solve, but it’s absolute poison when it lingers. You can know what to do to benefit from the resentment, while preventing it from killing your relationship.

Less attacking & avoiding

Conflict can either wound you and create distance between the two of you, or it can help with growth and deepen your connection. Once you know what to do during and with a conflict, you can discover its hidden value.

Connection & Intimacy

Marriages often start out well, but there is a particular stage in marriage where the relationship patterns that were okay before begin to cause a lot of trouble & turmoil. You can learn how to upgrade those patterns so you can have companionship again.

Not Alone Anymore

It’s normal to be an intelligent, sensible, and successful person in the world AND have marriage problems.

Why?
#1 There is a particular stage of marriage that is very distressing.
#2 Relationship patterns pull unsuspecting people into their traps.

Earlier in my marriage, I didn’t know this. I thought there was something wrong with my husband. But then I couldn’t figure out my part either. Maybe it was because we weren’t a good fit. Eventually, I discovered there wasn’t anything wrong with us being together. We had just been snagged by that difficult stage of marriage and were trapped in our patterns. These were solvable issues. Hope was on the horizon.

Now, when I help other individuals and couples navigate their stuck places, I hold the hope for each one of them. I watch the tension decrease as they begin to feel understood by the other. This is the start of stepping forward into a more stable, supportive, and enjoyable marriage.

The path forward to a more supportive and enjoyable marriage.

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BOOK AN APPOINTMENT

This is an important opportunity for us to meet each other and hear about your marriage. No need to hesitate, it’s not a sales call.

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LEARN WHAT IS HAPPENING AND WHAT TO DO

As we work with the stage of marriage you are in and the patterns giving you trouble, you will see the forces holding you back and what you can do with them. Increased connection, relief, and the adventure of doing new things are all common.

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ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE AGAIN

Relationships will always have their challenging moments. However, with your new awareness, upgraded patterns, and knowing what to do when resentment and conflict appear, you can have better days ahead in your marriage.

1

BOOK AN APPOINTMENT

This is an important opportunity for us to meet each other and hear about your marriage. No need to hesitate, it’s not a sales call.

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LEARN WHAT IS HAPPENING AND WHAT TO DO

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ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE AGAIN

Lives Changed

"I used to get so mad at my husband! Sometimes I would tell him (or he would guess it), but other times I kept it hidden. But now we know how to talk about our expectations and our desires and how to support each other. You helped me break through a cycle in our marriage that was happening for years & I am so grateful. You were a fabulous coach to work with. Your skill at truly listening & asking thought-provoking questions helped me see & understand things in a whole new light."

"I personally have struggled with emotionally driven responses to several life circumstances throughout my life. Not until my work with Jonie did I begin to understand and recognize the true complexities of my own human nature. Now I understand how my mind works and what "triggers" to look for and better ways to process them before reacting. I am eternally grateful for the thoughtful, kind, considerate approach Jonie took me through, totally devoid of any judgment. This, by far, has provided me with the tools to take a more active role in moving through life events, whether big or small, with positive approaches."

“My anxiety is lower now than it has been over the past five years of therapy. I’m glad I found you. I thought our family was going to have to split up. It felt like I was having to choose between my husband and our son. We are still together! You showed us different things. Now we have ways of interacting that we did not do or even know about before. I see how this will even help when we have grandkids someday.”

"Jonie helped me learn to be with my partner when I was hurting instead of shutting him out. Opening up to anyone is hard for me, but her communication, leadership, and coaching style put me right at ease. I felt taken care of and supported by her while I was changing. Working with her has been a real joy and a blessing! She knows how to help people get to the root of their problems with compassion and understanding. I highly recommend her to anyone who's looking for a change and wants to live a better life. She's not only an incredible coach, but also an incredible human being."

"It felt like I kept stepping into the same pile of dog poop, the same type of troubles in relationships. And now I see what I was doing over and over, and now I use my new way to get what I want. I honestly feel a sense of relief because I know how to handle myself differently. Jonie has really helped me have better relationships in my life, no matter how tricky that relationship has been in the past. She has an amazing way of untangling the complexity of relationships and bringing more clarity to any situation. She's helped me work through many relationships in my personal and work life."

"Oh, girl, your coaching 100% helped! Honestly, I felt more excited than nervous. Although at one point my brain said, “I would rather have surgery than talk with my husband about what I want to do in the bedroom.” But, I did it! I told him. The questions and steps you took me through in our last session were really helpful."

Do you want a sneak peek?

If you are having problems in your marriage or parenting, you might be stuck in the Triangle of Trouble. The tricky part? We can fall into these patterns without realizing it. That’s a tragedy.

This video is designed to help you spot relationship patterns that cause stress and heartache, so they stop destroying your family.