Relationship coaching that helps you overcome loneliness, ease constant tension, and avoid divorce
Feeling unimportant or misunderstood?
Being alone in a marriage is devastating.
- “I feel like I’m living off of scraps in my marriage.”
- “We’re either annoyed and defensive, or we give up and just withdraw.”
- “We’re not on the same page anymore. I miss that.”
- “I’m doing so much. But I don’t feel appreciated.”
Loneliness and frustration are painful. They are also signs of better days ahead.
It’s true. When a marriage hits this stage, it shows that people want to change. It’s the way marriage works. Loneliness and frustration are growing pains. But if you don’t know what to do with them, they deepen the wedge between you. Before you know it, that change is leading toward a separation or divorce.
Loneliness and frustration are painful. They are also a sign of better days ahead.
It’s true. When a marriage hits this stage, it shows that people want to change. It’s the way marriage works. Loneliness and frustration are growing pains. But if you don’t know what to do with them, they deepen the wedge between you. Before you know it, that change is leading toward a separation or divorce.
Painful emotions are signals that you are ready to grow in your marriage.
Focus on Yourself...
Conflict is a Friend
Distance is Important
At least some of the time. First, the work begins with identifying what you think, feel, and desire. Then you learn to communicate those truths effectively, both to yourself and to others. It’s simple, but not easy.
Conflict done well rewards you with connection and stability, and doesn’t take a long time. Enjoyable marriages develop through understanding our differences despite the conflict involved.
Sometimes we lose ourselves by getting too close to the other person, abandoning our own needs and identity. Other times, we create so much distance that we hide behind emotional walls that can take many forms.
Focus on Yourself...
At least some of the time. First, the work begins with identifying what you think, feel, and desire. Then you learn to communicate those truths effectively, both to yourself and to others. It’s simple, but not easy.
Conflict is a Friend
Conflict done well rewards you with connection and stability, and doesn’t take a long time. Enjoyable marriages develop through understanding our differences despite the conflict involved.
Distance is Important
Sometimes we lose ourselves by getting too close to the other person, abandoning our own needs and identity. Other times, we create so much distance that we hide behind emotional walls that can take many forms.
The Real Way Out
It’s normal to be an intelligent, sane, successful person and have marriage issues. I’ve discovered most people don’t need a way out of their marriage—they need a way out of their repetitive struggles. The good news? A way out exists. It does! It’s true. I’ll show you.
I have worked with retired school teachers, CEOs, stay-at-home parents, and a pig farmer, among many others. I’ve helped these courageous people change their painful interactions by showing them how to create supportive and enjoyable relationships.
As a contract coach for The Life Coach School, and specializing in marriages and parenting since 2019, I deliver results for hundreds of clients.
To have "same team" vibes and enjoy your marriage again, this is how it gets done.
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BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
This is an important opportunity for us to meet each other and hear about your marriage. No need to hesitate, it’s not a sales call.
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RECEIVE PERSONALIZED COACHING AND “THE REAL WAY OUT” FRAMEWORK
As we work together to develop skills, you will understand more about yourself, your spouse, and experience less hurt. You will change, and so will your patterns.
3
ENJOY YOUR RESILIENT MARRIAGE
Your new perspectives and skills will benefit you and your family, now and for years to come.
1
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
This is an important opportunity for us to meet each other and hear about your marriage. No need to hesitate, it’s not a sales call.
2
RECEIVE PERSONALIZED COACHING AND “THE REAL WAY OUT” FRAMEWORK
As we work together to develop skills, you will understand more about yourself, your spouse, and you will experience less hurt. You will change, and so will your patterns.
3
ENJOY YOUR RESILIENT MARRIAGE
Your new perspectives and skills will benefit you and your family, now and for years to come.
Lives Changed
Do you want a sneak peek?
If you are having problems in your marriage or parenting, you might be stuck in the Triangle of Trouble. The tricky part? We can fall into these patterns without realizing it. That’s a tragedy.
This video is designed to help you spot relationship patterns that cause stress and heartache early on, so they don’t destroy your family.