Feeling unimportant or misunderstood?
Being alone in a marriage is devastating.
- “I feel like I’m living off of scraps in my marriage.”
- “We’re either annoyed and defensive, or we give up and just withdraw.”
- “We’re not on the same page anymore. I miss that.”
- “I’m doing so much. But I don’t feel appreciated.”
Loneliness and frustration are certainly painful.
They are also a sign of better days ahead.
What??? It’s true. When a marriage hits this stage,
it shows that people want to change. It’s the
way marriage works. Loneliness and frustration
are growing pains.
But if you don’t know what to
do with them, they deepen the wedge between you.
This is the Way Out of Loneliness and Frustration
Focus on Yourself...
at least some of the time.
Step 1 – What do you think, feel,
and desire?
Step 2 – Effectively communicate
those ideas to yourself and to others.
Simple, but not easy.
Conflict is a Friend
Conflict done well rewards you
with connection and stability.
Conflict done well doesn’t take
a long time and doesn’t fester.
Enjoyable marriages develop
through understanding our
differences.
Distance is Important
We can be too close or too far.
1. We lose ourselves and fold
into the other person.
2. Be so separate that we are
behind a wall. There are lots
of types of walls to live behind.
The Real Way Out
I’ve discovered that most people don’t need a way out of their marriage. They need a way out of their repetitive struggles. That’s the real way out. And they need to know that this way out exists.
It does! It’s true. I’ll show you.
It’s normal to be an intelligent, sane, successful person and have marriage issues.
I have worked with retired school teachers, CEOs, stay-at-home parents, and a pig farmer, among many others. I’ve helped these courageous people change their painful interactions by showing them how to create supportive and enjoyable relationships.
Working with families since 2008.
Contract Coach for The Life Coach School, delivering results for hundreds of clients.
Specializing in marriages and parenting since 2019.
To have "same team" vibes and enjoy your marriage again, this is how it gets done.
1
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
This is an important opportunity for us to meet each other and hear about your marriage. No need to hesitate, it’s not a sales call.
2
RECEIVE PERSONALIZED COACHING AND
“THE REAL WAY OUT” FRAMEWORK
As we work together to develop skills, you will understand more about yourself, your spouse, and you will experience less hurt. You will change, and so will your patterns.
3
ENJOY YOUR RESILIENT MARRIAGE
Your new perspectives and skills will benefit you and your family, now and for years to come.
